Advice for a Nervous Planet

It's starting to feel to some people, particularly here in the West, like things have never been this bad before. I see people say they feel as though everything is falling apart around them, that they're teetering at the edge of a cliff, vast nothing echoing into infinity, the other side only a blurred vision of surface far in the distance, possibly a mirage and nothing else.

Things were making sense. And then they weren't. People started behaving in ways newly nervous citizens hadn't expected. It wasn't good. People already caught up or watching from the ever-nearing sidelines got dizzy. Now, they sense they could tumble at any moment. The more they think about it, the more the vertigo sets in. They're still here, but they've lost their sense of down and up.

Feeling like this, you can start to hear your own breathing huff faster, then faster. A hazy darkness closes in on your vision. Your thoughts are a narrowing tunnel. Your blood, or something else inside of you, some energy, is moving way too fast through your body.

Are you dying? Is this how things end? With sudden, unanticipated madness in the face of an uncertain, and possibly very cruel, future? Everything keeps moving around you and you can't keep track, can't catch up. Nothing feels normal. You feel horrifyingly light. Then lighter still. You might float away now instead, untethered to anything logical or known. This must be terror. Or insanity. Or both.

What you're feeling, if you're feeling this way, is anxiety. It might be lesser or greater, or mixed with any one of countless other emotions. Articles have been telling me that many of you are feeling it, whether it has been induced by the recent U.S. election and impending inauguration, or any other of the many recent and awful world events, from bombings to shootings to displays of political power and aggression.

natural if you feel it. Whether you have fled a war, have been watching terror and suffering from either side of the TV screen, or, like many in North America right now, feel like you are about to enter a new world of increasing dehumanization, danger, fascism and, possibly, even war, in a lifetime in which you thought nothing quite like this could happen (or happen again), you have every right and reason to feel anxiety.

I was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder (manifesting in panic attacks, in my case) more than fourteen years ago. It's strange to think those of us who have been the canaries in the coal mines of stress and anxiety may now be the ones able to offer the tools for others to keep going in this new age of generalized anxiety.

If it helps you, and I hope it might, as we enter a new year and try to bring back some hope, here are some key things I've learned from years of dealing with first anxiety and, before and after that, depression. Most of these techniques are adapted from cognitive behavioural therapy  (CBT), a way to train your brain to be able to acknowledge bad things without spinning you out of control, either into anxiety, depression or anger:

1) Picture beyond this. For panic attack sufferers, for example, this means remembering that, although you may be terrified and hyperventilating right now, in a few minutes you won't be. You'll get through this. On a broader, societal scale, I see this as meaning you need to remember you are still in charge of doing everything you can to make things better, and you need to believe you can and will do just that. Make a list of how you can help, from donating money or clothes or time to a cause that is going to need it in the coming years, to researching, to getting involved in local politics or regional, national or international organizations. There are lots of other options for how to help. Find which are best for you. You can do this.

2) Remember this has happened before, and it hasn't destroyed you. You are going to get through this. Again, on a broader scale right now, this means terrible things have happened on this planet. And we--as a species, at least--are still here. We keep surviving. You can do this.

3) Remember the good. When you feel like you're spiralling, think about the good--from loved ones to things you're proud you've done, to dreams you still want to see come true. The rest of the time, the best way I've found to tackle and prevent feeling overwhelmed, anxious or depressed, is to do things that remind you of the good in life in general, and in your life, in particular. Visit friends and family. Listen to your favourite music. Help someone who needs it. Dance. Read. Go out and visit a gallery, if that's what you love. Stay home and have a nice, long bath, if that's your thing. Eat cookies. Donate money or clothes or household items to a good cause. Go for a walk. Take pictures. Live. Do several good things every day for yourself that you enjoy or that make life better. This is the path back to perspective for those of us suffering from anxiety or depression. In this current political environment, it will also help you stay focused on your goals, and your reasons for achieving them. You can do this.

4) Find support. It's okay to ask for help. In fact, it's more than okay. You are letting yourself down as a person if you know you are in pain and you do nothing about it. Would you do this to someone else? I don't think you would. There is more help available to you than you think, from friends and family to professional services. You are not a burden if you do this. You are equipping yourself with what you need so you can do future good things. And you are setting a good example for others who are daunted by reaching out for help when they need it. You are going to get through this. You can do this.

5) Believe. In yourself first, if you can. If you can't manage that right now, then believe in others. Believe in the future. Believe in a higher power, if that is part of your relationship with the universe. But, please, believe that the potential for human good is stronger, more lasting and more pervasive than the potential for human evil. Evil has always been more flashy and attention-getting. It can brutalize in great quantities and shocking ways, and gets its name in the papers every day until it seems like it is everywhere. But, good is determined and infinite. It grows from the tiniest and most unsuspected places, and it spreads everywhere. It will continue to. And it is up to you to help it. It will help you, too, if you believe in it.

There are other tips, for sure, that can see you through. The ones above are those I've found most useful, and that I think can be extrapolated from to help others get through the coming times. If you need it, please seek more information and never be afraid to ask for help. I, for one, believe in you. You can do this.

Snow Day, Scattered Epiphanies

Today:

• I learned the words to Tom Waits' God's Away on Business, and it's true: There's always free cheese in a mousetrap, baby. 
• I found out that if you brush a thin layer of olive oil on a pizza crust before adding the toppings, your pizza won't get soggy and floppy.
• I decided that, other than from among your closest friends, seeking validation from fellow females not in your field is pointless and self-defeating because we are apparently not at that point yet where we can lift each other up instead of scramble over each other for the crumbs society throws our way. 
• And, simultaneously most symbolic and practical, I officially gave up on my futile attempt at 42 to switch to carrying around one of those tiny, femme purses, because yes, I know I'm carrying an enormous laptop bag instead of a purse, but you know what? Books. Books and papers. Books and papers and notebooks and pens and sometimes even a bloody laptop and yes, in one small compartment, between the Tide-To-Go stick, the sewing kit and the Star Wars band-aids, there are the one credit card and lipstick that could fit into that tiny f$#%ing purse that would look so much more dainty. If my deadlifting a portable black office doesn't look girly enough for you, though ... well, then, I wasn't your kinda girl anyway.

Anthology Deadline Extended to November 15

When the infrastructure around us fails, when social supports wane, when war and environmental disaster threaten safety, what do mothers do? Our call for submissions to the When All Else Fails: Motherhood in Precarious Times anthology has been extended to November 15, 2016. 

Visit the call for submissions on the Demeter Press website for details. To submit, follow the submission guidelines and email your non-fiction proposal, poetry or fiction to the editors: Dannielle Joy Davis (djdavis@slu.edu), Anita Dolman (dolmanideas@gmail.com) and Barbara Schwartz-Bechet (bschwartz@salus.edu). 

Money is Time

I have spent an enormous amount of time trying to buy more time. As a writer, time, security and a working computer are pretty much all I need to make the writing happen. But, earning the money to buy the first two of those three things, and to occasionally replace and stock the third, has taken up most of my adult life.

I have a lot of respect for writers who are willing or able to go it without a day job. So far, I'm not one of them, and I know a lot of other writers--many of them managing to create fantastic fiction, poetry and/or non-fiction--who work a day job as well. Many of these writers teach, or sell their editing and writing skills either freelance or, like I do, to a full-time employer. Some have jobs that seem to have little to do with writing. My misery over my eight-hour-a-day job and two-hour-a-day bus time often finds soothing company in the thought of Kurt Vonnegut shilling cars at his father-in-law's dealership well into his forties.

More life-altering solutions aside, one of the best ways I know of to gain writing time is by getting grants. I've been fortunate to get writing grants over the years from my city (Ottawa), as well as my province (you can read here about a sabbatical I took courtesy of the Ontario Art Council's Writers' Reserve grant program earlier this year). Last year, I got my first travel grant from the Canada Council for the Arts, which let me try to extol the virtues of my own writing, and that of others, to an American audience, and to build some great connections while I was at it.

I'm very grateful for the grants I've received so far, and what they have made it possible for me to do and make. Which brings me to something I overheard at a conference this summer. Someone mentioned they were glad that provincial grants were going to writers like me, who really needed them. The speaker thought too many grants were going to writers who had a reliable income outside of writing. They didn't realize I was one of "those" writers.

I shrank away, embarrassed, picturing myself looking down from my office tower, the reflective glass sheltering me from the righteous indignation of any "real" artists who might be found begging for scraps of paper or sandwiches in the street below.

It's not the first time I've heard this opinion. It lurks among jurors and artists alike. But it was the first time I felt (even though the speaker didn't know it) that it was aimed at me. I immediately wondered: Did I take away someone's ability to pay their electricity bill? Did someone have to literally go hungry because of me? Was there a poet somewhere in Ontario trying to make a ketchup sandwich in the dark because I got their grant?

My guilt ran amok as I wandered to the next panel. I deserved the sunburn I was probably getting by taking the long way. By the time I found a seat in the shade, and had made some small talk with a handful of other writers, my reason started to return.

The question was really whether I deserved a grant more than someone else. The answer is that art is subjective and, although I believe in the value of my own writing (I have to; it's a job requirement for making more), I accept that, in the end, giving one person a grant and not another is a judgement call by a few people who have volunteered their day to help shape literary futures. But what is it they are judging? Is it the value of the art I could make in the time the grant would buy me? Or is it how much I need the grant to survive as a human being?

I want to believe it's the first. And, I don't want to believe that just because it makes me feel warm and fuzzy if I get a grant, or because it lets me burrow down into the warm muck of self-flagellation or righteous misery when I don't. I want to believe it because that is what the grant descriptions say,

Every grant I have ever applied for (and others I've never applied for, because I didn't feel qualified) was described as meant to buy the artist/writer time to create. And, if you are selected to get a grant, you have to account for that money, exactly how it bought you that time, and what you managed to make as a result.

That there are so many professional writers and artists in Canada that rely on production grants to buy food and pay for basics from food to housing means we, as a society, need to fundamentally change how we value the making of art, and how we support the human beings who make it.

From copyright laws to both arts and financial education to guaranteed incomes, this is a huge job that requires changing policies, changing attitudes, and changing how we value ourselves as dreamers and makers of art.

I have my own dreams of a world where artists at all levels of income are more financially independent and empowered. At the very least, I hope all professional artists and writers apply and apply and apply to every grant they feel they are remotely qualified for. Do it because you believe in your work. Do it because you need time to make more of it, and to make it better.

Here are a few places to start, depending on where you are:

• Canada Council for the Arts
• Funds for Writers
• Ontario Arts Council
• The Write Life

Most cities, provinces, states and countries also have some type of grant system in place for artists and writers. Of course, you may not get the grant you apply for (I certainly haven't gotten most of the ones I applied for), but you definitely won't get the ones you don't.

Good luck out there.

Call for Submissions about Motherhood in Precarious Times: Deadline Extended to November 15, 2016

It's been an amazingly busy summer, even by my schedule-crushing standards, with readings, travel, conferences, and even the occasional tiny bit of writing here and there--mostly there. I'll post more about some of this summer's happenings, events and projects soon (at this rate, quite possibly in the fall), but, in the meantime, if you are a poet, fiction writer or essayist with something to say about the nature and circumstances of mothering in precarious times, please consider submitting to When All Else Fails: Motherhood in Precarious Times.

I will be co-editing this anthology with the amazingly talented professors Danielle Joy Davis and Barbara Schwartz-Bechet.

The call is open to Canadian, U.S. and international submissions. The deadline for poetry and fiction, and for essay proposals, has been extended to November 15, 2016.

If the topic isn't for you, take a look at some of Demeter Press's other current anthology calls.

Lori Jean Hodge 

There are some people whose smile stays with you from the moment you first meet; whose opinion matters deeply to you, even though you may not know them that well; who is an indomitable force of good in your life, even though you don't manage to hang out as often as you mean to; who is both a spark and a calm centre for all of their friends.

Lori Jean Hodge was exactly that person. She passed away this month after fighting a brilliant fight against liver cancer.

The most singularly vibrant human being I have ever had the chance to meet, she will be missed not only by Ottawa's theatre and music community, but by an enormous array of family and friends, and, of course, her amazing wife, Karen.

I count myself extremely fortunate to have been among those who knew Lori. I honestly believe the dozen or so times we were in a room together over the years have made me a better person.

Lori was an inspiration to me and my partner, James K. Moran, in how she approached life, how she engaged with her art, and how she loved and treated others. I wish I had had a chance to speak with her more, to learn more from her.

James and I will miss her more than words can say.

Returning Home: Alice Munro and the Trouble with Great Authors

Wingham, Ontario, is a quintessential small Canadian town. Built on rich farmland and difficult work, it stretches slowly, then quickly recoils, along the banks of the Maitland River. For all of its unique in-fights, personal histories and disparities, the town photographs like a textbook image of a southwestern Ontario town built on the banks of a winding river. It is made of brick, of dust, of gardens, and of the limitations of land, economy and hope.

It is because the town is so physically small that it still surprises me that I never knew, growing up there, that Alice Munro was from my town, too. Not, at least, until, at age 15, I was packing up to move with my parents to an equally sized, but very different, town in southwestern Alberta. It was during my elaborate, teenaged moping and packing process that I came across a paperback copy of Who Do you Think You Are?

My sister Elizabeth, twenty years older than me, had given me the book for Christmas. I soon afterwards shoved it onto my bookcase, and had ignored it since. To be honest, given the book’s title, I had, without further investigation, assumed it was an unsolicited self-help book, and had treated it accordingly. 

Ready now to slide it into an open box, I flipped first to the back cover. And there I read the words “Alice Munro was born and grew up in Wingham, Ontario.”

The Town of Wingham still had only a minute replica of a museum when I was growing up. Tucked into a tiny turret on the third floor of a 19^th-century brick house, the majority of it was crammed into one room, requiring staff to do constant head counts of the visitors to make sure the museum wasn’t exceeding its fire limit. Volunteers had put together a tight arrangement of glass-cased exhibits based on whatever random, inherited items locals donated over the years. I remember our one class field trip there focusing mostly on a terrifying collection of turn-of-the-century dentistry tools, and an equally terrifying collection of corset-requiring dresses from roughly the same period.

The museum has, I’ve heard, since blossomed, moving into its own, much newer building many years ago, and apparently adding an Alice Munro exhibit, to highlight her personal history, and her connections to the town and its stories.

But those connections were not ones anyone wanted to talk about in the ’70s and ’80s, when I was growing up on a hog farm outside of town. Those who knew there was a published writer in their midst, and the even fewer who had read what she had written, were not about to publicly extol the woman who had told the entire free world exactly where their local brothel could be found (“The Lives of Girls and Women”), and had even intimated it might be a rather popular stop for area farmers, foundry workers and professionals alike.

Munro’s genius has always been in her ability to see and describe the universal struggles and harsh, human complexities evident in the everyday goings on of the closely knit circle of strangers that make up the residents of small towns. Hers is a gift of extraction and articulation, making the whole world out of a mole hill.

The result, however, can be a tough sell for the moles.

The Wingham where I grew up was marked, and marred, by stark divides—a literal division along the tracks between the "good" and “bad” parts of town; a moral and school board division between Catholics and Protestants; a righteousness division between the townies and farmers; and, later, when the bottom dropped out of the pig market in the ’80s, a further division of tragedy between those farm families whose fathers had hung themselves in the barn or had tried to burn down the family homestead for insurance, and those who were able to sell or otherwise survive. Alcoholism, drug addiction and illegal crops barely made the basis for a good rumour, since they were everywhere. Those people trying to survive there made up an enormously rich library of human pain.

I can’t speak for any other residents, past or present, of Wingham. But I can say that—although I am in awe of Munro’s writing skill, and, for a number of reasons, she is a hero of mine—I have still, some twenty-six years after first discovering her words, read only a few of her books.

I consider it a failure of courage on my part.

My partner and I currently have four of her collections on our bookshelves. Of these, I have completed two, including that copy of Who Do You Think You Are? All four of the Munro books in our living room watch over my shoulder in the evenings as I read Donoghue or Lavery or Edugyan, or go dancing inside the poems of Shin or O’Meara or MacEwen.

I admit I have left Munro’s stories largely alone because they are just too hard for me to read. The objectivity a person needs to be able to follow a plot and its character abandons me as soon as I enter her world. From the first sentence, I am too much exactly there to function usefully in that place. In case there is a reader alive who does not yet know it: She is that good. She has done far more than get a place right. She has gotten its sense right.

                                        

I should be so fortunate as to come from a place that produced only a mediocre writer. I could read every word they had written; could mutter authoritatively “They got that totally wrong; that church is on the other corner;” say “That’s right! I remember the candy they sold in that store across from the park;” or feel a warm bond of connection as I remember having heard that story about the murder once, too.

But it doesn’t work that way with Munro’s stories. Many are set before I was even born. Most take place on farms, in fields and on streets I never walked, or, at least, don’t recall. And yet, her sense of place is conveyed with such intensity and sincerity, it doesn’t matter. From the opening paragraph, I am back in Wingham—both mine and hers—its ghosts haunting every sentence, its broken, yearning atmosphere brought to life across the pages. 

I have a wonderful friend who still lives in Wingham, and another who returns regularly to visit family there. Their descriptions give me the sense of a town that is both different and the same—one making its complicated way in the modern world, while still navigating in the shape of a small, brick-hearted town with too much history for its own good. I’m glad to see the town move forward. I’m happy to hear it now has an Alice Munro exhibit, and an annual Alice Munro festival, and a public pride in the accomplishments of its most famous daughter. 

Winghams are, after all, where so many of us have come from. And where so many of us return to.      

I’m proud of Munro, too. I don’t assert the right to be. I don’t know her personally, and I lay no claim to any connection beyond a shared love of language and an unwittingly shared location. But, she set a course for what can be accomplished from a starting point like Wingham. She taught me that the mysteries and hardships of a place can and should be explored as much as its beauty. That knowledge can be gained wherever there are people. And that singular human experience and circumstance can become something powerful wherever there is someone to tell our stories. 

For that example, I am truly grateful.    

Micro Presses, Moments and Meanings

If you've never heard of rob mclennan's above/ground press, you probably a) don't live in Canada and b) don't own anything stapled. His tiny press has been cranking out broadsheets, chapbooks and microjournals since what feels like the invention of folding, but is actually 1993.

Lately, rob has been diving into his archives. He is posting a backlist as he continues to sort and rediscover some of the press's nearly 800 publications. If you are new to the poetry world, this is a great chance to catch up with some affordable samples of fantastic work by a huge and relatively diverse range of poets.

Some of my work is in among the mix, including the handful of remaining copies of my first poetry chapbook, Scalpel, tea and shot glass. rob also still has some copies left of a few collections in which my work has appeared over the years, including this snazzy little number published as a handout for one of Ottawa's first Westfest festivals:

I also had the dubious distinction of being in the press's 10th-anniversary publication, aptly named ten. The distinction is dubious not for the event, nor for the great company I was in, but for the publication containing what, in the calming haze of distant retrospect, I believe it is the single worst poem I have ever had published. The chapbook as a whole received positive response, but my poem rightly gained me my first (and so far only, knock the nearest processed-wood-derivative-based product I can find) one-hundred-percent negative review. Yes, in the blind panic of deadline, I really did stoop to pointing out the number of digits most people have. All I can say is I was young and I only tried it the one time:

rob also still has a number of issues of the Peter F. Yacht Club (read about the group's, and the publication's, history here) milling about for sale. Being published in those has been a highlight of what passes for my writing career to date, giving me the thrill of seeing my name alongside people from Dennis Cooley, Rae Armantrout or William Hawkins to Peter Norman, Liz Howard and George Elliot Clarke, and so, so many more.

I think this little publication alone is a treasure, offering snapshots as it has of an expanding area and era in CanLit. But that, of course, is exactly the type of contribution that above/ground and presses like it throughout North America and across the world continue to make, even in this age of digital everything. It's the opportunity to be one of the few who capture a printed moment that may seem only small and fleeting at the time, but to which we will keep returning, drawing out meaning and inspiration, until the staples give way and the paper thins to memory.

What We Talk About When We Talk About Community

As I write this, fire is eating its way across the north of Alberta, three provinces to my west. More than 80,000 people have already been evacuated from Fort McMurray and surrounding areas, but the latest news is that, so far, thankfully, no one has been seriously injured or lost their life to this tragedy.

Although I was born in Ontario and didn't move to southern Alberta until I was 15, I consider that province my home. It's where I am most at peace, where I feel most connected to the earth and to the sky above. Those are easy things to feel in a place where both can appear to reach from the edge of your shadow onward to infinity.

The maybe counterintuitive thing about coming from such a vast and wide-open place is that you develop a deep sense of your connectedness to others. Community here, for 10,000 years or more, has been about reliance, survival, and, of course, celebration--of the fact that we are here at all, let alone in this awe-inspiring place together.

I have never been to Fort Mac. I don't think I know any of the evacuees. But I know about community. I know theirs, like all of ours, was never made of just buildings and infrastructure. As we see the stories emerge of people bringing jerrycans of gas to stranded motorists fleeing along Highway 63, of folks taking in strangers and their rescued animals alike, of babies being born, of donations pouring in, of towns and cities and provinces and an entire country opening its arms, they will at least know what they have left. Themselves. Each other. And us.

Speaking of which, if you haven't done so yet, please donate to the Canadian Red Cross, which is coordinating relief efforts for those many who had to flee so quickly and with so little: www.redcross.ca 

Appreciate the Weird Stuff (It's All Weird Stuff)

One of the things I love about going to the Cornwall and Area Pop Expo (CAPE) is the weirdness of it. People with wildly eclectic interests find each other here. This weekend, there to celebrate CAPE's second year, I had the strange and wonderful fortune to meet or spend time with not only fellow authors, but comic book artists and sellers, jewelry designers, an entire roller derby team, fabulous steampunk milliner Elaine (of ES Essentials & Co), characters from what seemed like nearly every science fiction show film ever made--from the X-Men's Storm to Indiana Jones--and even a dalek or two. (On a side note, I learned to never again get into a war of words with a dalek.) 

If your imagination ever needs a booster, go to one of these events. It's enriching to see people's passion for their interests made manifest, all the more so when those interests aren't a perfect match with your own, so you can see them through the lens of perspective. 

Meanwhile, I'm grateful I managed to sell a few copies of the Triangulation: Lost Voices (Parsec Ink, 2015) anthology, in which I have a speculative fiction story, "Pacific Standard." Those who didn't buy it nonetheless very patiently listened to my spiel before they meandered away to find a photo op with Chewie or hunt down a deal on Pokemon. 

The weekend was bridged with the Saturday night wedding of the two organizers, Carol and Randy, in true geek style. The bride wore a Wonder Woman costume, the groom was a dapper Spider-Man. Darth Vader gave the bride away. R2D2 was a ring-bearer. Agent Carter officiated. I have honestly never seen anything like it. I admit I teared up. Seems I'm a sucker for super heroes in love.

The entire weekend was a reminder that it's a strange, strange world out there. And that fact is, somehow, very reassuring.

The And/Or of Inspiration and Obstacle

As the final weeks of my writing sabbatical dwindle to ever-shorter days, I find myself thinking more and more about balance. How do we find it? And what does it even look like?

It seems to me that finding any balance as a person and a writer has to involve making peace with the fact that the elements of my life that inspire my writing are often the exact same ones that seem to keep me from my keyboard for days or even months at a time (there was also that one year I didn't write at all, after I had a child, although some people--okay, male people--suggested this would be the easiest time of all for me to write, since I would have so much time on my hands while "not working").

On the note of embracing--or, at least, identifying--the chaos between the pages, here is a piece I wrote for rob mclennan's Ottawa Poetry Newsletter a few years ago:

On Writing #1: A little less inspiration, please
(Or, What ever happened to patrons, anyway?)

Published in 2013, my ramblings had the privilege of marking the first essay in mclennan's On Writing series. Three years later, the series is quickly approaching the 100-essay mark, and has included a huge array of writers saying some very smart things on nearly every subject related to writing, editing, publishing, and how to live with such tragic afflictions.

I highly suggest you check it out. If, of course, you can find the time.

Lessons from Chaos

I am very lucky, I know. After 10 years in government, I built up enough grants, courage, and emotional support of friends and family to take a three-month sabbatical to focus on writing poetry. I managed to edge a bit of fiction in there, too, not to mention some reviewing, some volunteering for CWILA, Arc Poetry Magazine and our son's school, and, of course, a stack of reading. I also spent more time focusing on the business side of of my writing career, including promotion, event-planning and setting up this very blog.

The sabbatical is almost over. But I'm hopeful that what it has taught me will last forever:

First, never think that the warm April weather in Ottawa, Canada, is going to be a "nice finish" to anything, other than to the idea that April will be warm and have nice weather.

Second, nature may abhor a vacuum, but a writer abhors the vacuum, the duster, the dish rag, the broom, the scrub brush and the mop, especially when all of them are now only mere feet away from her all day, every day. I am simultaneously deeply ashamed and deviously proud that my house has never been dirtier than it has been in these past three months when I was not commuting, not out of the house at work, and only a block away from the grocery store where we buy our cleaning supplies. The amount of dust I became capable of walking right past became a measure of my productivity. Okay, the sneezing fits may have lost me some time along the way, but every system is bound to have a downside.

Third, children will not, by will or by wonder, appear to understand the difference between "not working" and "working at home," no matter how many times you try to explain that you are not actually on vacation.

Fourth, the compulsion to volunteer one's time is directly inverse to the amount of time one has to volunteer.

Fifth, there really is a mental "muscle" you need to build up to increase how long and how well you can focus on your art, and, as a result, increase your output. It takes time to build that muscle, and it is completely pointless to berate yourself for having to start slowly.

Sixth, writers as a whole are sometimes painted as self-centred and competitive. These kind of paintings are usually done by the handful of writers who are self-centred and competitive. I have learned, yet again, that fellow writers make for an enormously supportive community. Everyone here has been there, and most of us actually want others to succeed. In fact, we really like it when they do. My thanks to everyone--near or distant, longtime supporter or brand new friend--who helped prop me back up whenever I started to slide through the floorboards of self-pity after being flattened yet again under the enormous business end of the arts.

My thanks again to the Ontario Arts Council for their support, and to everyone who helped me, in one way or another, make the most of it.

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